LGBT Parenting: What does Surrogacy mean for Gay Couples in UK?

Three years ago, British Olympian Tom Daley and his husband Dustin Lance Black shone a spotlight on surrogacy by announcing they were going to become Dads.  Although there are relatively few families formed through surrogacy in UK due to restrictive regulations, surrogacy amongst gay couples is believed to have increased by 50% in the last 5 years. This article looks at how gay men can father a child through surrogacy here or overseas and become the legal parents in UK.

What is surrogacy?
Surrogacy is an arrangement in which a woman becomes pregnant and gives birth to a child for another person, or couple, who will become the legal parent(s) of the child.  There are two main types of surrogacy available to gay couples in UK:

  • “Traditional Surrogacy”when the surrogate’s own eggs are used with the sperm of one of the commissioning / intended Dads.
  • “Gestational Surrogacy”when donor eggs are used and the surrogate is unrelated to the child.

Surrogacy is becoming popular amongst gay couples as it enables one father to be biologically related to the child.

Will we be our child’s legal parents?
In UK, it is only possible for one of you to be recognised as a legal parent on birth.  This is because a child can only have two legal parents at one time and the birth mother will initially be recognised as one of those parents, even if she is acting as a surrogate with donor eggs.

If you are biologically related to the child your name can be put on the birth certificate as the child’s other parent, assuming your surrogate is not married or in a civil partnership.  If your surrogate has a legally recognised spouse, that spouse will initially be child’s other legal parent, even if they do not have a genetic link to the child.  In this situation the biological father will need to apply for a Parental Order to extinguish the legal status of the spouse and transfer it to himself.

Where does this leave the intended father without a biological connection?
The child’s other intended father will usually make an application for a Parental Order in conjunction with the biological father.  This will extinguish the status of the surrogate birth mother leaving the intended fathers as the two people with parental responsibility.  The application must be made within 6 months of the child being born but cannot be made less than 6 weeks after the birth.  If a Parental Order is granted, then parental responsibility will be transferred to the intended parents and a new birth certificate can be issued with both father’s names on it. It is advisable to make the application as soon as possible as your child, who would usually be in your custody from birth, will be in a legal limbo until you have parental responsibility.

Please contact us if you would like more information about the issues raised in this article or any aspect of surrogacy.

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